Are You Tackling Your Ticklers and Someday lists?

Make sure you do your ticklers by tackling them
wrote this on April 30, 2012
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When we don’t have time for something, we just defer it.  David Allen, the author of Getting Things Done (GTD), calls those items Someday/Maybe Items; I call them “the things I’d like to get done if I had more time to get things done”.

The best way to get to those “I’ll do them later” items according to David is to set “ticklers”, ticklers are reminders or triggers that you set to “pop” when you reach a certain date in your calendar or when a certain condition or pre-requisite is met.

The problem with ticklers is that we treat them most of the time as mere suggestions, giving them less authority than “must do” actions.  But, at least for me, they still carry the same amount of guilt when I fail to get them done.  It’s not fun to review your tickler file only to reset your tickler to another future date, knowing full well, they most likely will never get done.

So how can you use those ticklers to really get those Someday items done or alternatively label them as non-important to ease our guilt trips?

#1 Put a self-destruct date on it

An excellent method I use to unclutter my lists is by putting a “self-destruct” date on them that once reached, removes them from my lists for good!

An unexpected thing happened when I started to use the self-destruct date on actions, I completed more “maybe” items because of the “pending doom” aura they had over their heads…call it the adrenaline rush you get before the gallows, you don’t want to see that item disappear into the abyss so you do everything you can to at least begin it.

Once the ball is rolling, it’s a normal action/project and should be treated that way.

#2 Create decision catalysts

On top of connecting my ticklers to the calendar, I like to connect them to a physical trigger, what I call anchors.

Action anchors are events, people or conditions that once met, transfer the Someday item to my action list. For instance, I have a fly fishing trip on my someday lists but I know that I’m looking to go with at least one friend.  The anchor to make this happen is finding a friend to join me.  By anchoring that friend to the fishing trip, it helps trigger a conscious decision to go fishing once I find the right friend to join me.

So anchor Someday items to certain situations or people and see them get done.

Ticklers and Someday lists on IQTELL

#3 General = Fail | Specific = Win!

Spending more time with the kids or adopting a healthier way of life is a description of a task that will never see the light of day.  Why? Because it is too general!

Of course you’d like to spend more time with your kids and eat healthier, but those future projects require you to break them to smaller bite-sized actions, (…no pun intended).  When the time comes to put your money where your mouth is, you won’t know where to start and therefore, you won’t start.

Try to break “spending more time with the kids” to:

– Pick them up from school instead of them taking the bus;

– Go with them to the movies every other Tuesday;

– Play soccer with Johnny on Saturdays.

The more specific the Someday/Maybe list items are the higher your conversion rate will be.

The most important thing to remember about your maybe items is to sleep on them, and never lose sleep because of them…the best way I know to do that is to get them done!

* GTD® is a registered trademark of the David Allen Company. IQTELL is not affiliated with the David Allen Company.

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16 responses to “Are You Tackling Your Ticklers and Someday lists?”

  1. Some great suggestions here to get those “maybe someday” items actually done. I particularly like the idea of anchoring an action to another person. It creates a level of accountability, which can be a very effective way to accomplish things.

  2. Sue says:

    I like the idea of assigning a self-destruct date as a way of providing motivation to get something done, or to make the decision that it’s time to accept that I’m not going to do something and move on.

    • When we’re faced with life or death decisions we tend to go with what’s important…It’s a part of our fight or fright response mechanism.

      …I like it too :)

  3. Excellent suggestions!  I’m not fond of tickler systems in the “general” sense that’s it used to tickle (or remind) you of what you said you’d like to accomplish or do.  I suppose that’s because there usually isn’t an anchor in place for so many of the tasks.  The accountability factor is HUGE for my clients.  Another great article….thank you!

  4. Charee Macdonald says:

    It is the act of bringing the ticklers and someday maybe items into real actions to move us towards our hearts desires. The specific and small manageable actions give us the road map to what we really want. (Such as spend more time with my kids.) The real goal isn’t to finish the list. Instead ask how can I bring my best self forward.

    • Team IQTELL says:

      If you’re able to include your hopes and
      dreams to better yourself in your next action list…then you’re on the road to
      bring your best self forward :)

  5. Geralin says:

    “Hooking, “Connecting” or “Linking” might be another idea worth trying. It’s when you link 2 actions together. For example, if you enjoy watching a TV show, watch the show but do something from your to-do list during each and every commercial break.  Examples would include shredding/filing paper, doing sit-ups, folding laundry – – whatever.  You can do this with a variety of tasks – link doing leg squats with brushing your teeth, or link sitting in your car, at red lights with deep, purposeful breathing.  

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